I am quite a typical girl who thinks a lot. And I have lots of small random thoughts, which sometimes aren't very good, but sometimes thinking makes me feel good, and makes me want to improve. :)
I deleted all my previous blogs, as I realised that I have grown to attach to it. Some may say I am neurotic, or extreme. However, in life, if we get too attached to things, we screw up things. We make the wrong decision. For this scenario, I do not know how else to unattach myself other than deleting it.
Our mission in life is not to change others, but to change ourselves. To improve, and to make ourselves feel better about life in general. Every single thing we do, from giving up a pleasure in doing things so that we can study for exams, to working hard for the family. We choose to do things that makes us feel good, feel right at that particular moment under the giving circumstances. And sometimes, we regret for doing something because we realised that we could have felt much better doing some other things.
Regret is a powerful tool that can be used against us. By other people, and even by ourselves, subconsciously. So don't ever dwell in remorseful situations for too long, as not only it's harmful, it will disable to move on with your life. Realising your mistakes is more important than thinking of the "what ifs" in life.
Things change and people change. People around us change. We change too. Comparing me with the girl 5 years ago, I have grew so much and became a completely different person. If given the choice, I would love to talk to her, and tell her to look at the bigger picture, the more important stuffs, and the core of your life. What defines you can make your life complete.
As of now, I am still having soul searching. And I am enjoying it. I love the way I live my life. I know there are rooms for improvements.
I am full of hopes. haha.
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